Dear Uncle Gary, How do I rebuild trust with someone who says they forgive me, but still keeps their distance? Signed, Trying Dear Trying, Forgiveness is a door. Trust is the long walk back through it. When someone says they forgive you but still keeps their distance, it doesn’t mean they’re lying. It means they’re healing. Forgiveness is a gift they gave you. Trust is a gift you’ll have to earn. So here’s what you do, you show up. Not with grand gestures or guilt-soaked apol

Dear Uncle Gary, My husband told his family I was unfaithful, and now I feel exposed and ashamed. Can we rebuild trust after something like this, or do I need to accept that his loyalty to his family is greater than to us? Signed, The Cheater Dear “The Cheater, First, let’s strip away the label. You’re not a headline. You’re a human being who made a mistake, or maybe didn’t, depending on the full story, and now you’re standing in the wreckage wondering if anything can be rebu

Dear Uncle Gary, I was laid off last month from my job as a university administrator. I didn’t tell my wife right away because I truly believed I’d find something quickly and then explain it once I had good news to soften the blow. But here we are, a month later, no interviews, no prospects, and I’m still pretending to go to work every morning. I feel ashamed, stuck, and scared. I know I need to tell her, but I don’t know how to begin. I’ve never lied to her like this before,