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Eleven Months Later

Altadena, CA. Nearly a year after the Eaton Fire carved its way through the foothills, the town is still living in its shadow. Eleven months sounds like enough time for life to snap back into place, but for many families, the calendar doesn’t match reality. People are still scattered across borrowed bedrooms, spare couches, and motel rooms that were never meant to be home. Entire neighborhoods feel like they’re holding their breath.

Dec 30, 2025

I’m a bottom

Dear Uncle Gary, I have a question that feels a little unusual, and I haven’t met anyone, or even heard of anyone, in quite the same situation. Is it normal for me not to orgasm during sex? I genuinely enjoy being intimate with men. I’m a bottom, and I feel confident in what I bring to the experience. The pleasure itself is wonderful, yet I’ve never had a partner who could make me ejaculate. With toys like Fleshlights or other masturbators, I have no problem reaching climax,