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Eleven Months Later

Altadena, CA. Nearly a year after the Eaton Fire carved its way through the foothills, the town is still living in its shadow. Eleven months sounds like enough time for life to snap back into place, but for many families, the calendar doesn’t match reality. People are still scattered across borrowed bedrooms, spare couches, and motel rooms that were never meant to be home. Entire neighborhoods feel like they’re holding their breath.

Dec 30, 2025

Dear Uncle Gary, I met my wife when I was 18, married her at 24, and we had our daughter at 25

Dear Uncle Gary, I met my wife when I was 18, married her at 24, and we had our daughter at 25. Life felt full, with good careers, a happy kid, and what I thought was a strong marriage. But at 35, my wife told me she wasn’t happy. We divorced, stayed friends for our daughter’s sake, and a few years later, she remarried. Her new husband adopted our daughter with my blessing. Since the divorce, I’ve stayed single and started exploring my sexuality. I’d never been with men befor